To crow from below  

"So I will start this out.  First is the failure of the black family.  You are aware that before welfare that only 7% of black children were born out of wedlock, now it is 76%."

Perhaps you could cite or post your source? What I can find does demonstrate an increase in 'out of wedlock' births, but not at the rate you quote. For instance this graph is a little dated but indicates a less dramatic trend line:

Notice that it shows 'White' births almost doubling in the period, Hispanic increasing by about 50% and Black increasing by 10%.

The following is per thousand unwed birthsin the years 1965 to 1984.  But it, too, does not support the increase you allege. Your source could demonstrate otherwise....