Maybe you'll get the courage at some point obsy :)   

Also I didn't give people a lot of notice. I posted it an hour before the call started. Only a few people read the message.

I've offered to chat with you off the forum before, but you have never wanted to. Maybe you feel more comfortable typing here where you have time to formulate your responses. I am comfortable either on here or chatting on zoom (with or without video)

There's a lot more information you can gather by hearing someone's voice than this ping-pong on here. 

And the tone of the conversation could wind up changing a bit if we associate real humans to the voices...You'd be surprised.